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my 21st birthday party!!!

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my 21st birthday party…

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Me drunk off my ass on my 21st birthday!

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my 21st birthday…hehe

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I’m 18 my boyfriend is turning 21 in march and we talk about our future pretty often. Right now we are taking a break from talking about it cause it kinda stresses us out. We definitely know that we want to get married and we pretty much decided two or three kids is what we want. I really could care less where we live, but he would like to stay near his family in Commack, New York (Long Island) soo thats probably what we would do. what kind of salary would make us live happily??

I get good grades and I love learning, I really know that I could be whatever I want because of my grades I really have so many options. I love reading so I thought of editing, I love planning so I thought wedding planner, I love psychology (always have) so i always revert back to being a psychologist but the thing is I just wanna be a mom. But i get sick to my stomach when i realize my boyfriend hates school and that he has no idea what he wants to be. He always had the thought that he would be the sole supporter of our family but im scared that he wont find something that will let us live comfortably so i feel as though i have to have a good salary as well.

His family has always coddled him because he was the youngest and they say things like well if you dont find something you could always have our house and we’ll move into the basement… and that gives him the impression he has something to fall back on. i mean its nice but it doesnt mean he doesnt have to look for something it really scares me that ill be living with my in-laws forever just because he doesnt have a specific plan. but he hates talking about because i guess he feels the pressure of time coming. we dont have the means to get married definitely for a few years and we are okay with that but his parents let him spend his money on a car when he was in highschool and now he lives from paycheck to paycheck so its not like hes saving anything. he is so wonderful and sweet and he has a great family but they just never taught him responsibility.
he doesnt understand how long it takes to save money, to buy a wedding, a house, pay for kids i feel as though we should start soon but he doesnt see it, im so sorry for rambling
but i dont know how to feel should i just worry about me and do what i have to have a good salary so I KNOW for a fact that we will be comfortable or do i leave it up to him?

i mean how high a salary can you have with just an asssociates degree? not a lot i assume, maybe i can get him to go to school with me and get a bachelor’s?
thanks so much to everyone who answered so far but i just wanted to add something..

my boyfriend likes the idea of the male being the dominant one in the household, he likes the idea of coming home to dinner on the table where the whole family sits down and he wants to be able to be the one bringing in the bacon, but i just think he didnt doesnt realize that it doesnt just get handed to you, we come from completely different backgrounds my mother had me when she was 19 and had to work three jobs to support me and herself so i get it, i know the reality i just dont know how to make him see it…
and also we do plan on having fun before we get married we have this idea of going to another state like vermont where i go to college and he works all day on the mountain cause his passion is snowboarding and we would have fun there before we are tied down, but if he doesnt think now we wont vene be able to do that….
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